Dealing With An Over Stimulated And Timid Cat

Having a cat that can get over stimulated quickly, and turn around and bite you can be a difficult thing to deal with. Or what if your cat is timid and jumpy and runs every time someone moves. There are ways to help him or her out, but your cat may not always overcome it.

There is nothing wrong with having such a cat, if you can handle it. Be wary though of having a cat that is easily over stimulated or aggressive if you are going to have it around children, especially if they are easily frightened.

I have two cats: one is relaxed, loves people, and isn’t startled when she hears things. She just basically snoozes, plays, and socializes fearlessly. My other cat however is jumpy, nips, and rebels when he is overly bored or feels neglected. When I am trying to work on my computer and am not actively petting him at all times when he is on my lap, he gets mad and goes around my apartment pawing at my TV, computer cover, and windows. But he has greatly improved his behavior but it took action on my part too to help him out.

Give Your Cat Attention When He’s Estimable. Ignore Him When He’s Bad.

Never yell at your cat, especially ones that are jumpy. One good solution to this is when your cat is naughty to emphasize that you will not give him any attention if he acts up. If ignoring isn’t good enough and he’s nipping at your hands (as mine does) put him in another room and shut the door. But only do this for a few minutes. It will be long enough. Please do not forget about your cat in the room. Basically the message you are trying to give your cat is, “If you are going to be nippy and mean, I will not give you attention.”

Basically, this is a short time out. It’ll let him cool off some steam.

Realize Cats Get Angry and Resentful: Find Out What is Causing Their Grudge

Some cats will soil your carpet, some will knock things over while you are away, and others will be more aggressive. On the flip side, some may just ignore you. Cats are not like dogs in this manner. Dogs are diminutive better about being happy to see you no matter what. Cats will be revengeful, and even hold grudges.

If you have to be away for a while at work, construct clear your cat has everything he needs. Don’t be afraid to leave a little laundry on the floor. Your scent will help remind them that you are coming home.

My cat has so considerable built up energy when he sees me after I’ve been gone for work that he doesn’t know how to be gentle. Having a second cat helps because it gives him someone to socialize with so he doesn’t engage it out all on you. Two cats can still cause a lot of mess together if they get into mischief.

Soiling the carpet or your clothes may not always be a revengeful act. You may have to look into if your cat has a bladder infection or some other health pickle causing this. They may be trying to stammer you something.

Make Sure He Has Something To Do

Cats don’t sleep all the time. I notify my cats are up all hours of the day, and when the lights go out that’s when the real party begins. Don’t automatically assume your cat is going to be joyful with a comfy bed. They need something to hold their attention, otherwise they’ll have all sorts of built up energy and not know what to do with themselves.

My cats like stuffed toys and balls. I have a catnip rug, but I am careful about catnip because too much catnip sometimes overstimulates my male cat, causing him to be more aggressive. I also am careful with toys with strings and small pieces. A lot of cats are, for lack of a better word, stupid with not getting tangled up or getting little pieces of their toy in their mouth.

Perhaps It’s Time For a Second Cat

This should only be used if you know not only you can financially handle another cat, but if your living set is suitable. Many apartments only allow one cat. A second cat has helped release a lot of energy out of my male cat. Now by the time he gets to me, all he wants to do is snuggle. Another cat is double the litter mess, double the cost, double the trouble, but at the same time be a unbelievable addition.

I can’t imagine things without my second cat. It has helped calm the nerves and aggression out of my male cat significantly. They still have their territorial battles, but my home seems like a happier home. The extra scooping is a dinky price to pay for all the love she gives me other cat, and the play time she gives him, and all the cuddles she gives everyone she meets. The second cat also helped sooth the timidness of my other cat.

Now what about that timid cat? He may always be timid to some extent, but you can help him. There are a lot of reasons why a cat may be timid. Perhaps he is feral and had very little human interaction. Perhaps he was slightly abused and had a dreadful past. Maybe your cat was the exiguous and was always picked or neglected.

Stop Enthralling, or Find His Favorite Toys to Bring During a Move

I moved multiple times in three years, and each time it put a strain on my cat. He always crouched around the new apartment sniffing his surroundings as he checked out the new place. Being stable in the same location will help your cat over time calm down and feel more relaxed. Since I was always moving or taking him to my parents with me, he saw the cat carrier as an evil thing. When he heard the cat carrier, or even saw me get my shoes on he’d hurry.

It has been a long time since he has gone anywhere, except to the vet when he was sick and since then he doesn’t mind when I put my shoes on. He is relaxed, and not afraid he’s going to have to ‘go somewhere new’ again.

If it is not possible for you to discontinue in one state for long, contemplate having a blanket or a stuffed toy that your cat likes, that has his and your scent on it, that you always have for every move. For my cat, it was a microscopic baby sized blanket and a stuffed toy cat that was always immediately laid out when we were at a new location. He immediately latched onto those items and it helped him feel more at home.

Your first objective when releasing your cat from his cat carrier to the new home is to unpack his approved toys that will perform him feel safe and at home.

Use Your Inside Voice

Now I know it isn’t always possible to keep your dwelling completely quiet when needing to vacuum or use a blender, but there are things in you that you can keep in control of. I noticed that any heightened volume of my voice causes my cat to become afraid and nervous. Even when he is biting, yelling will either cause him to run away or bite harder because he is afraid.

He never bites hard enough to break the skin but I know I have to still be cautious with him. I used another approach that has helped me. I talk him through it. If I yell I would only startle him and cause him to lose some trust with me. Instead give him a chance to snap out of his mood and consume a gentle voice. If this doesn’t work after awhile I resort to a time out, but the time outs are basically far past us now as he normally can be talked through his mood. The key here is to never do anything to startle your timid cat because it will break the trust, even when he’s naughty.

Never Ever Hit

Hitting a cat is impartial not proper. Cats are selfish animals for the most allotment. As much as I love my cats, I believe this to be good. They will love you, cuddle, and be a astronomical pet for you, yes. But they also hold grudges. They may not remember why they’re holding a grudge against you, but they still will. A unnerved cat will never get over his timidness, and a nice cat may become stunned, if he is struck. If he soiled on your carpet or you come home to a shattered vase, hitting the cat will do nothing. He’ll have no idea why you’re hitting him, but instead fair see you as a threat. Hitting will only cause timidness and aggression in your pet.

Associate Yourself With Their Food

Calling your kitty to eat when opening a can of food or giving them a few pats on the head when their eating to display you’re the one that feeds them can help. If nothing else your timid cat will at least begin coming out and looking for you when he’s hungry. Some cats are very territorial over their food, so if your cat is growling while he eats just leave him be.

Sit At Their Level, Have Fun With Your Cat

Allow your cat to also associate you with fun and play time. Find a toy they might like, such as a wand with a string and feather and play with them. Some cats simply enjoy stalking things under a newspaper that you proceed around under it. Don’t make many sudden movements, but move quietly with your cat. Even reward his play time with a treat. And never underestimate the power of a gentle voice, or even meowing at your cat. Cats love it when you at least try, even though you may sound silly or feel strange doing it. If you feel really weird about it, objective do it when you’re alone with them. They will begin to build a trust with you as not only their playmate, but their friend.

Cats objective like to feel comfortable and safe. They are not as human loyal as perhaps a dog would be. An overstimulated and petrified (timid) cat takes a lot of time and patience to work with. The main key to remember is to not to do anything abrupt or loud that might frighten them, and give them a lot of attention when they are behaving. Don’t be afraid to talk to your kitty, many talk back. And others are quieter, but are trying to remark you something, you just have to listen.

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